A FEW WORDS ABOUT US
When I became a mom, the biggest stress that came with my
son was the one that all of us (biological and not) get
when we take on the role of mother. Being a "good mom".
This anxiety, I don't know if it's an instinct that comes
from some biological internal mechanism, but we all have
it when we undertake the upbringing and growth of a new
person
Perhaps, it is also the fault of the society that waits in
the corner to point out every mistake before we even do
it, as if together with the child in the maternity ward we
also received the manual of the right parent that will
direct us and reduce each choice and behavior to incorrect
ones . But, we have no information about the after and
everything that will come in the journey of parenthood.
We walk blindly and are anxious not to be judged by our
children, our family, our work, the whole society for how
we perform the work of the "right" parent. When I started
this journey as a mom, I felt the need to prove that I can,
mainly to myself, that I am a proper mom, of course without
any manual and always with an anxiety that I will be judged
for what I didn't know (that is, everything).
Finally, as a sociologist, I realized that the title of
good/bad mom is another label, absolute, that does not
correspond to reality and distracted me from the most
important goal I had as a mom. To raise a happy man. So
I started looking for alternative parenting methods. Reading
more and more books based on the science of child psychology
led me to the Montessori system
and the Nordic method of upbringing and education. I decided
to focus this way, more on the social and emotional development
of my child than on creating the good obedient child. That's
how the idea came to create a "space" where I will collect the
tools that helped me and still help me in raising my own child.
Playing is the inner compass that guides our children in
their later life, it is a developmental milestone and
the foundation for a happy childhood.
At Exploreland we have games inspired by Maria Montessori's
method combined with the Scandinavian model of raising and
educating children. Quality toys made from natural materials
and friendly to the environment and children. We value good
play that stands the test of time and invest in developing
curiosity to explore and discover knowledge experientially
through play and leisure. Learning for us is a borderless
journey with endless horizons and limitless possibilities
that embraces all ages.
The Montessori Method
"The Montessori method understands that children are individual
s who belong to themselves and are on their own path. Parents
and teachers care for them and guide them like a good gardener
his plants
We provide the appropriate conditions, and adjust them when
necessary, in order for them to develop and choose their life
path independently of our own experiences, desires and
repressed." Through play, he cultivates the curiosity to know
the world, the sciences, himself and his relationships with
other people.It is a milestone for healthy development
(emotional and social) but also an integral part of childhood.
Scandinavian model
The necessity and importance of the role played by play in
education also underlines the Scandinavian model of raising
children, which places greater emphasis on children's free time
. It is believed that through play children understand better
and naturally learn autonomy, companionship, democratic
attitude, self-esteem, socialize and acquire mental resilience
(see Why Danes raise the happiest children).